In The Song of the Lark, Cather began a description of a winter day with, "The air was a tender blue-grey, the color on the doves that flew in and out of the white dove house . . ." Today's sky is more gray than tender but that might be my mood. Earlier, fog enveloped backyards in the neighborhood and then it was gone.
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I wish my back was as tough as these boots but it is not. Last week, I was tired of being cooped up and the sidewalks were still icy/slushy. So I put on my new footwear and scooped off the front sidewalk. I know better. Repeating a lifting/twisting motion, as in scooping and tossing slush is not good for my back. After a work-related injury years ago, my back has limits. If I exercise and stretch, I am mostly pain free. I know this but I chose to ignore it and so pulled a muscle in my upper back.
I've spent several days icing a sore upper back while gingerly moving and stretching. Yesterday I read and rested. This afternoon, my back permitting, I hope to go for a short walk. Hey, I've got new winter walking shoes and just by accident, wool socks that match.
Last night, I knit for an hour on an easy garter stitch shawl and listened to the end of The Secrets of Wishtide, a light mystery. I needed entertaining so this mystery fit the bill. I thought the author repeated some phrases too many times but this is the first in a series. I enjoyed it enough I'll give the second one a try.
Usually within a week or so, my back muscles return to what is normal for me. If not, I'll have to seek physical therapy. In the meantime, I am treating myself with tenderness. And so tender, as in easily hurt. I have a tender back and I would do well to tend it.
Take good care of yourself today.
Ouch! So sorry to her about your back woes. I do hope you are feeling back to normal quickly and able to get out for a (at least a short) walk. Tender is such an interesting word to me - so many different connotations, and as I mentioned to you before, I really love Willa Cather's writing. I think this winter might be a good time to revisit a book or two of hers. Take care!
ReplyDeleteSometimes, the best thing we can do is be tender with ourselves! Sending you healing wishes that you back is soon less tender than it currently is! XO
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to read that you are in pain from your back - sometimes things just happen despite our best intentions. Hoping that tender loving care from others and to yourself is helping to ease it, and that you can step out again soon with those very smart boots and socks. Thank-you for the introduction to Cather, whom I don't know - but I think I might like. Warm good wishes for a swift recovery.
ReplyDeletepraying for your speedy recovery! Backs are brutal when they act up. I go to the gym because of my back! Shoes are everything and like you I have narrow feet and have trouble getting shoes to fit.
ReplyDeleteIt seems to be human nature that we know what we need to do, yet ignore that at times. I know I am certainly guilty of that -- not stretching, staying up too late, eating the wrong things. I hope your sore back is just a gentle reminder of how you need to treat yourself and that tenderly is the key word.
ReplyDeleteMy mother would have said those 1974 boots 'don't owe you anything'. My dad would also have approved of their long life. :)
ReplyDeleteI hope your back is much-improved by the time you read this comment! I, too, know what I "shouldn't do" to aggravate the old-and-worn parts of my body . . . but I don't always listen. Oh, well. I suppose that's human nature! I love that your old boots hung around on active duty for so long -- and I wish you many happy (dry) miles in your new boots. (I have a wool duffle coat that I purchased in college -- back in the late 70s. It still is in regular rotation in my closet, and I expect it to remain so for the rest of my life.)
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you hurt yourself!!!!!! I was so proud of my husband. After 37 years he allowed a plow to clear our driveway! It is much better for his back. !! Well worth 40 bucks. I need boots too
ReplyDeletewell darn it, I'm so sorry about your back! I'm not sure that's the "tender" Cather had in mind, but it is fitting! and YAY for new boots AND matching socks! ...and feeling better enough to venture out for a walk. Take care of you!
ReplyDeleteOur backs are so important and so delicate, aren't they? I hope your rest and being good to your back result in it feeling better very soon.
ReplyDeleteO Jane, give yourself a lot of TLC! Enjoy those new boots and socks to match...
ReplyDeleteCheers~
So on the boots...shouldn't that be "Rest in piece"?
ReplyDeleteor pieces. lol
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